“True friends give honest opinion, avoids being judgemental.”

(Useful Quotes From Friends)

C. MONO:

“Sometimes it’s good to get rid of a few people in your life. I’ve lost contact with a few friends for the better, real idiots that i
couldn’t stand, they didnt do too many things directly at me, but their personality and way of living I didnt agree with.”

J. WARD:
“You may make some decisions that can really leave a guy left hanging but you dont do it on purpose, you’re a
sweetheart just meant from the time when you just stopped talking to me cause you saw how  much you were liking me…
You’re gorgeous you’re a sweetheart to me your the kindest sweetest most gentle and understanding thing i know. You make the
sun shine inside me when i see you and i see your beautiful smile You need to be worrying about keeping yourself happy so
you can be yourself and a good person to those people around you that are your friends and actually care about you more than
themselves… “

“SHINDLER’s LIST”

Peter POF: Had a conversation with myself about something you asked me when we were watching shinder’s list.. you asked if that’s for real, are ppl really so nasty and i said yes but one doesnt’ understand until really in the situation… been thinking more about that.. it’s so sad and neither one of us can truly comprehent :S Whoachick: comprehend what? Peter POF: people baing nastyWhoachick: You mean vicious, almost animalistic…well, they say we are animals too not that i agree Peter POF: Well i can’t imagine myself shooting someone in the head and not caring and maybe laughing about it like it’s a cool joke.. at the same time i know (intuitively) that other would and do do that and i probably could as well under certain conditions.. it’s really bothering me that i can’t figure out why.. or i dunno.. it’s desturbing me we are animals.. true.. and maybe as an example “i would never kill an animal” and the very second I would be hungry i would have abosolutely no problem killing an animal.. it’s the same idea, you’re right Whoachick: uhm… killin an animal for sustenance is different..i just meant animalistic in nature, heartless, so on so forthPeter POF: Im thinking that when you are put into a situation where you have to choose between extremely hard decisions, the normal thinking process cannot be applied like logic and freedom to walk away and such.. so you take the best action you can at the time.. and from me, sitting in livingroom it’s not fair to judge.. hmm, perhaps too deep for sunday
evening conversation.. sorry :$ how is your broken nail, better? Whoachick: no…it’s not about the best action it’s doing the right thing, to have a justifiable reason Peter POF: but
you may not have choices that are good - that’s why im talking about extreme conditions, it’s situational why ppl do what they do that they would never do in “normal” life.. you know? Whoachick: give me an example then..say pullin a trigger on innocent people for a ‘good’ cause? Peter POF: for example, yes.. kill another or i’ll kill you.. and you already seen me kill 3 other in front of you.. what would you do? and my point, it really doen’t matter what you would say now, because you’re not in the situation.. you’d use logic and reasoning behind your answer.. but when on your knees in the situation, it would be all based on totally different principles.. and it’s easier to corrupt nation than individual.. Whoachick: well true ..but i know hundreds of people who chose to suffer during those times than kill and serve the selfish interest of those men Peter POF: chose to suffer? they did not choose to suffer, they HAD to suffer.. or kill.. that’s the difference.. they didn’t say “i know, i have an idea, i will suffer now..” Whoachick: uhm ..people were put in a situation where they can choose.. with its consequences Peter POF: this is where i will stop this heated debate, i would have to have you near by to continue Whoachick: ah no Peter POF: this is a very sensitive topic and requires physical presence otherwise lots can be mis-understood and such.. i want to prevent that.. ok? Whoachick: it wont be misunderstood.. so long as we are both conditioned but yeah i’m not in my greatest conversational mood at the moment..as always lol but yeah they had a CHOICE i have an illustration.. Peter POF: what i mean is that talking on msn without physical gestures and tone of the voice etc one can think of something else that the other meant.. but yes, you will never be misunderstood. BECAUSE YOU ALWAYS STOP SAYING WHAT YOU WERE SAYING!!!! buggin ya

“TOUGH LOVE”

Whoachick: Is physical abuse normal between those who claim to be in true love?i know NOT but this girl i know i swear, she’s all ‘oh we love each other we grab each other’s throat but next thing u know we’re back in each other’s arm till a few minutes later where we’d start arguing again..we can’t live w/o each other, so in love *sigh*’8-)Peter POF: Can’t really tell. Love comes in various forms.. both love and hate are the same thing, only opposite spectrum.. it’s like plus and minus, hot and cold, black and white - same things, different level.. just like pleasure and pain (physically) is the same. if I gently tickle you it feels nice, when i press harder it’s annoying and when i press harder it hurts.. but it’s still the same thing.. i probably didn’t answer
your question, but i think it’s hard to answer And if i were to be the first one to know, then i guess i’ll just be waiting around to see if I will know Whoachick: I cant believe you said that Relationships are about trust and mutual respect. Peter POF: What was the question? You made a statement that she likes the love and hate relationship.. some couples are like that.. some even enjoy tourture in sex, some girls like to be slapped and abused and love their guys for it.. ppl are weird, Kate.. there is no right answer that would apply to all.. sorry, can’t respond one way or another.. i could say how i see it relationship from my perspective, what i would like
and how i would deal with situations.. but can’t speak for other ppl and tell them they are wrong doing what they are doing, you know? Whoachick: I just meant, no one who claim to be in true love can really say that they love their partner if he/she abuses him/her. If they were to mistreat their partner, of what value would all his other good works be? Many who claim to be inlove and yet who repeatedly and unrepentantly gives in to fits of anger does not understand enough the
true meaning of LOVE ……. Yes i agree..it is common and some make it seem normal and cute in the movies infact, it is considered ‘A Legacy in Silence’ that is to say, any physical abuse in a relationship. There is simply no such thing as “acceptable” battering in any type of relationship. A common misconception. But yeah, in most cases victims turn out to be responsible for provokin it too, most of whom are young think that it is common anyway, another proof of the worsening of moral climate in this space age. Never had anything physical in the past with
the first and only longterm relationship I ever had, and can count the times I’ve ever raised my voice, does that make me inexperienced and clueless with relationships cuz i never had to go to that extreme to show how much i cared and how much any problem, misunderstanding, big
or small affected me?Peter POF: I think we are in agreement on one point here - ppl have no idea what love is.. my defition of love is ” when i am on my death bed, i can look into my wife after 30 years of being with her and tell her – you were a pain in the ass but i would never change a moment in my life for another moment without you” - that’s love! Whoachick: True noone’s perfect but there’s more to LOVE than mere emotions.. it should be guided by principles. Peter POF: Doesnt’ make you inexperienced, - well may be.. but it depends on the partner you choose that’s why i am saying that ppl don’t know the meaning of respect, personal responsibility and commitment, therefore they CANNOT love.. they only love the situation they are in and they
LUST.. not love.. loving couples have no need for violent acts – the opposing term for that is HATE (opposite from love, opposite from pleasure (pain)..

“MORE”

“I’ve never been this emotionally challenged…”
(Its ok to be like this, its all in the mix of being confused with what you understand, and what seems a blur.)
“Guess I just need to be a lil more patient…”
(Sometimes its better to see whats best for you than what’s fair. You have to
remember whose life is being messed with the most in the end, if
everything doesn’t work out, who’s going to be the one who loses the
most.)
“Haven’t said the L word.. but there are times I couldn’t sleep I want more.”
(Its good that you haven’t, if you dont feel you do then don’t say it, its
not good to say such a powerful word thats been so overly used so
lightly without being meant. You shouldnt commit to someone who isnt
committing to you. One person has to hold back, and that person should
be you not him, he’s the one that has to prove himself not you, you
could find anyone you want, he will probably never find someone like
you again.. Theres two things to do, stick to a goal, and target it to
a time limit. If your expectations drop too far then you should
consider ending it, and he should expect that to happen, he can’t rely
upon you to always take him back because of potential that may never
happen)